thanks guys.

Funny enough that when we try to take less notice of our own birthdays (at least I'm trying to do that) as we're literally getting oldER, we still want others to remember THE special days. As time goes by, days in life get a little bit blur and we realise that the speicial day is really just one special day among 364 normal days. With or without that day, it makes little difference to the life. If you meet a guy who make you happy everyday and can remember every single special day for you, you are extremely lucky for that guy has exceptional memory capacity and lovable character. In that case your life should be described as gourmet food, as you have all the extra zing. But if you are not lucky enough, like most of the people, but you're quite happy together, then think your life as a pretty good homemade casserole. Maybe it lacks of presentation or a hint of zest, it still tasts really good.

love won't always fill in the life. while two stay together, it may be of some love, some kindness, some responsibility and some reliability. it makes you suffer to compare what you give with what you will gain. though it is true for sure that every girl wanted to be loved throughout life, don't take the rule as a burden.
love is abstract, and it is only a feeling between two person.
if you trust him, at least the month was right and the date was around; otherwise, you kept on wondering. but what will you get? nothing.
cheer up, come what way, heaven won't fall.

strongly agree! never let your lover go